When I met Brendan, I was well on my way to the sexual empowerment that I now enjoy. My experience with him was an important part of my slutty journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Brendan is one of the people who I\u2019ve had the strongest immediate physical attraction to. He\u2019s just straight-up delicious. When we started talking, I liked the way the conversation flowed comfortably and how open and respectful he was when talking about sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We ended up talking for longer than usual before meeting, because we live far apart and he has a busy work schedule. By the time we had our first date, we\u2019d been chatting for six days and we\u2019d already gotten very sexual. I was excited to jump into bed with him as soon as possible, quite frankly!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So for our first date, that was basically the plan. We met up for dinner, then fooled around in the car before I brought him back to my house. The sex was fiery, hot, and passionate\u2014but didn\u2019t last as long as I would\u2019ve hoped for. I enjoyed him a lot, but I would have liked to enjoy him for longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Afterward, we cuddled and talked for a little while, then I drove him back to where his car was parked. We sat in my car and talked and kissed for a long time before he left to make the drive back home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Since our first date, which was three weeks ago as of this writing, we have not talked very much at all. It wasn\u2019t an immediate shift, but a gradual one and nothing \u201chappened\u201d to cause it. It seems that he\u2019s just extremely busy and tired with work. When we do talk, it\u2019s affectionate but brief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I honestly don\u2019t know if I\u2019ll ever get to see Brendan again. If it was up to me, I would\u2014even if our relationship is almost entirely physical, it\u2019s fun for me and I like him a lot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That being said, it\u2019s possible that he is no longer interested in me for whatever reason, and he\u2019s trying to communicate that without being direct. I\u2019d like to think that\u2019s not the case, but one can never know for sure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Either way, Brendan was a first for me\u2014the first time I had sex on a first date! And, he may end up being more of a one-night-stand, which would also be a first for me. For the record, that\u2019s not something I look for at all, because emotional connection and relationship building is very important to me. However, as far as sluthood goes, it is kind of nice to have an experience like that under my belt, so to speak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Casual sex is now part of my journey toward accepting sex as a normal, fun, and healthy part of my life, even in a variety of emotional contexts. Sometimes sex is deeply intimate and emotionally powerful. Other times, it\u2019s just fun and hot. I really like that I can enjoy the different levels and varieties! (Sidenote: I take sexual health and safety very seriously. Testing and protection are mandatory. \ud83d\ude09)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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