This is the story of how I found two boyfriends in one week.

On the same day I virtually “met” Romeo, I also met Calvin. Romeo and Calvin are now my boyfriends, and the two partners who I see most often (aside from Hubby, of course). 

I went on a date with Romeo the day after I met him online, and went on a date with Calvin three days after that. 

My first date with Calvin was ice cream, a walk, and sexual escapades in my car. Before we met up, we’d been talking all day long every day since our first introduction. One of the things we also did during that “getting to know you via text” stage was a days-long game of truth or dare. We got to know each other very well before we met in person, and even talked on the phone once. I was excited for our date, and felt fairly certain we would get along great. 

During our pre-date game of truth or dare, I thought it would be fun to dare him to kiss me as soon as he saw me on our date. It added an extra layer of anticipation for meeting him, and I really liked that. Sure enough, when I pulled into the parking lot, he was already there and we saw each other, got out of our cars, walked to meet each other, and without a word, he kissed me. It was a very memorable first meeting! After that we had a great date, and I got to know him even more as the adorable, dorky, smart, sweet guy who I now call my boyfriend.  

After we got ice cream, he suggested we go on a walk. Even though it was a shopping center we were in, and not exactly great for walking around, we made it work. We walked past the shops, into a murdery alleyway, and then into a nearby park. It was a nighttime date so our walk was in the dark, and I made a lot of jokes about him murdering me, as one does. I thought it was funny because he played into the joke, but I already trusted him a lot and I, of course, was never truly in fear for my safety. 

Nevertheless, it became even more funny when we ended up walking down a hiking trail in the total darkness. Perhaps I was naive to go to a secluded and dark place with this guy I had just met, but my intuition is really strong and I trust myself. I wasn’t worried a bit, and we got to have a few laughs about it. It’s even a joke that we still sometimes go back to now that we’ve been out on a few more dates.  

After our walk, we fooled around in my car as-per-usual. We had a lot of fun, and when we said goodnight I was feeling great. I knew we would be seeing a lot more of each other.

With Calvin, I enjoy how comfortable and at ease I feel when I’m with him. I like how we communicate, and seem to have fallen very naturally into an easy boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic without a lot of effort. I really like kissing him and touching him, and how I smell like him after we’ve been together (because he always smells so good). I love his smile and his adorable face. 🙂

I’m so happy to have Calvin in my life, and I’m looking forward to spending so much more time with him going forward. I can easily see deep feelings developing between us the more we get to know each other. Right now, I definitely have a big crush on him!