After meeting Romeo and Calvin, I found myself with two boyfriends and a number of FWBs. This was not my original plan. When I started my poly journey, I was looking for one secondary partner. I wanted to have fun along the way, yes! But my ultimate goal was to find the one, or as… Continue reading This is the story of how I realized I was poly-saturated, and what I did about it.
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This is the story of how I found out just how little will-power I have.
My last first date (at least, as far as I have planned for the foreseeable future) was with a guy I’m calling Alec. By the time I planned a date with him, I was quickly approaching poly-saturation. Then, within the few days between making plans and actually doing them, I reached that point. I’d already… Continue reading This is the story of how I found out just how little will-power I have.
This is the story of how I realized just how much I like dads.
Just before I went on my first dates with my boyfriends, Romeo and Calvin, I went on a date with a guy who we’ll call Travis. It was a great date, and I was excited for the potential for that relationship to be what I was looking for. We actually connected the same day we… Continue reading This is the story of how I realized just how much I like dads.
This is the story of how I found two boyfriends in one week.
On the same day I virtually “met” Romeo, I also met Calvin. Romeo and Calvin are now my boyfriends, and the two partners who I see most often (aside from Hubby, of course). I went on a date with Romeo the day after I met him online, and went on a date with Calvin three… Continue reading This is the story of how I found two boyfriends in one week.
This is the story of how I found a forever love.
(Edit: I posted this out of chronological order, because love made me do it.) Romeo, oh Romeo. Wherefore art thou, Romeo? Seriously, what is happening to me? I ask myself that pretty much daily at this point. (Correction; I ask myself that multiple times a day, usually). Romeo came into my life a mere seventeen… Continue reading This is the story of how I found a forever love.
This is the story of how I fell in love in less than 100 hours.
I was about six weeks into my poly journey, and I’d already had my heart broken once. What can I say, I move quickly! It was about a week and a half after that heartbreak when I got a message on a dating app from a new guy, Romeo. Romeo came in HOT. In his… Continue reading This is the story of how I fell in love in less than 100 hours.
This is the story of how I made and lost a best friend within one month.
Where to start with Rafael? He was one of the first people I started talking to when I became poly, and we talked a lot. We talked for hours and hours over the course of about a month, but we never met in person. We were mutually attracted to each other, and had amazing chemistry… Continue reading This is the story of how I made and lost a best friend within one month.
Time for a little housekeeping.
So far, I’ve been posting in generally chronological order of my experiences. At the time of this writing, I have been polyamorous for two months. To keep track of all of the guys I’ve talked to and dated, I made a spreadsheet. Yes, I am type A. 😀 So, in review, here are the stories… Continue reading Time for a little housekeeping.
This is the story of how I’ve been ghosted, guilt-tripped, and tricked.
This is actually three stories in one. Fortunately (I guess?) all three of these things didn’t happen with the same guy. They just all happened to me, within a short period of time. I’ve gone on dates with ten men since becoming poly two months ago. That’s a lot, but not a ridiculously huge number.… Continue reading This is the story of how I’ve been ghosted, guilt-tripped, and tricked.
This is the story of how I had to say no too many times.
When I met Aaron, I was moving quickly through my second wave of guys, going on dates and figuring out who I was going to keep seeing. Aaron is local to me, so that was a big bonus. He was also attractive and friendly, and bold enough to ask me out quickly, which I was… Continue reading This is the story of how I had to say no too many times.