So far on this blog, I’ve been sharing my experiences with polyamory and what that journey has been like for me, going from a happily monogamous marriage to a polyamorous lifestyle. But now, I’ve found my Romeo and things are very much settled for me. I have him, my one boyfriend, and no other romantic… Continue reading Story time is over.

For readers who may not know this, I grew up in the American Evangelical Church, and continued to embrace it as an adult until recently. The AEC is a term commonly used for the most dominant form of “Christianity” within the United States of America. It has a culture all its own, and a big… Continue reading This is the story of how I discovered that sexual compatibility is a real thing.

What is my life now? The short answer is, I feel like I’m living for the times I can be with Romeo. What about the times in between? I’m existing. Just existing. Maintaining things—my life, my family, my house, my responsibilities. Of course, I need this time without Romeo to maintain things. Or at least… Continue reading This is the story of UGGHHHH.

I am approaching my two month milestone of being together with Romeo, and things are still going strong. Stronger and stronger every day, despite how impossible that seems, in fact. Every day we find ways to up the ante again and again. Our love is stupidly, absurdly, disgustingly, intense and powerful.  And yeah, I get… Continue reading This is the story of several little big things.

As of today, here is my relationship with Romeo in numbers. Weeks we’ve known each other: 6 Days we’ve known each other: 43 Times we’ve seen each other: 17 Sleepovers we’ve had: 10 Hand-written love letters we’ve exchanged: 8 (or more, I’ve lost track; I keep all of his of course, but how many have… Continue reading This is the story of how I became fearless.

Tonight, Calvin broke up with me. I saw it coming, and even in a small way hoped he’d end things because I liked him too much to do it myself, but I knew it would make my life simpler. Yet it still surprised me, and what surprised me even more was that it still hurt.… Continue reading This is the story of how I hate rejection.

My relationship with Romeo is getting to the point of finally feeling “normal.” Even though we are still stupidly obsessed with each other, we’re finding ways to blend our lives together without losing balance. We both have families, and he has a full-time job, and we live an hour and a half apart, so balance… Continue reading This is the story of how I normalized my poly life.

I’ve been with Romeo for a month now, and it still doesn’t feel real. Our relationship started as a nearly-instant love, and the fire has not died down at all yet. It’s burning strong and fast with zero percent containment. 😆 There are many reasons why it doesn’t feel real. Romeo is unbelievable in so… Continue reading This is the story of how I live in a dream now.

After meeting Romeo and Calvin, I found myself with two boyfriends and a number of FWBs. This was not my original plan.  When I started my poly journey, I was looking for one secondary partner. I wanted to have fun along the way, yes! But my ultimate goal was to find the one, or as… Continue reading This is the story of how I realized I was poly-saturated, and what I did about it.

My last first date (at least, as far as I have planned for the foreseeable future) was with a guy I’m calling Alec. By the time I planned a date with him, I was quickly approaching poly-saturation. Then, within the few days between making plans and actually doing them, I reached that point. I’d already… Continue reading This is the story of how I found out just how little will-power I have.