Tonight, Calvin broke up with me. I saw it coming, and even in a small way hoped he’d end things because I liked him too much to do it myself, but I knew it would make my life simpler. Yet it still surprised me, and what surprised me even more was that it still hurt.… Continue reading This is the story of how I hate rejection.

My relationship with Romeo is getting to the point of finally feeling “normal.” Even though we are still stupidly obsessed with each other, we’re finding ways to blend our lives together without losing balance. We both have families, and he has a full-time job, and we live an hour and a half apart, so balance… Continue reading This is the story of how I normalized my poly life.

I’ve been with Romeo for a month now, and it still doesn’t feel real. Our relationship started as a nearly-instant love, and the fire has not died down at all yet. It’s burning strong and fast with zero percent containment. 😆 There are many reasons why it doesn’t feel real. Romeo is unbelievable in so… Continue reading This is the story of how I live in a dream now.

After meeting Romeo and Calvin, I found myself with two boyfriends and a number of FWBs. This was not my original plan.  When I started my poly journey, I was looking for one secondary partner. I wanted to have fun along the way, yes! But my ultimate goal was to find the one, or as… Continue reading This is the story of how I realized I was poly-saturated, and what I did about it.

My last first date (at least, as far as I have planned for the foreseeable future) was with a guy I’m calling Alec. By the time I planned a date with him, I was quickly approaching poly-saturation. Then, within the few days between making plans and actually doing them, I reached that point. I’d already… Continue reading This is the story of how I found out just how little will-power I have.

Just before I went on my first dates with my boyfriends, Romeo and Calvin, I went on a date with a guy who we’ll call Travis. It was a great date, and I was excited for the potential for that relationship to be what I was looking for. We actually connected the same day we… Continue reading This is the story of how I realized just how much I like dads.

On the same day I virtually “met” Romeo, I also met Calvin. Romeo and Calvin are now my boyfriends, and the two partners who I see most often (aside from Hubby, of course).  I went on a date with Romeo the day after I met him online, and went on a date with Calvin three… Continue reading This is the story of how I found two boyfriends in one week.

(Edit: I posted this out of chronological order, because love made me do it.) Romeo, oh Romeo. Wherefore art thou, Romeo? Seriously, what is happening to me? I ask myself that pretty much daily at this point. (Correction; I ask myself that multiple times a day, usually). Romeo came into my life a mere seventeen… Continue reading This is the story of how I found a forever love.

I was about six weeks into my poly journey, and I’d already had my heart broken once. What can I say, I move quickly! It was about a week and a half after that heartbreak when I got a message on a dating app from a new guy, Romeo. Romeo came in HOT. In his… Continue reading This is the story of how I fell in love in less than 100 hours.

Where to start with Rafael? He was one of the first people I started talking to when I became poly, and we talked a lot. We talked for hours and hours over the course of about a month, but we never met in person. We were mutually attracted to each other, and had amazing chemistry… Continue reading This is the story of how I made and lost a best friend within one month.