Dear Romeo, Where to start? You wrote me a letter tonight, and I thought it was only fair to respond. As you said, it has been 120 days since we met, and neither of us had any idea what was to come when that first conversation began. Neither of us could have imagined this love… Continue reading Dear Romeo
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Love Is Love
Love is such an awesome thing. It’s the reason for life, really. It’s the thing that gives life meaning. It’s the ultimate goal, to love and be loved. And at first glance, you may think I’m just talking about romantic love, but I’m actually not! See the amazing thing about love is that it comes… Continue reading Love Is Love
Story time is over.
So far on this blog, I’ve been sharing my experiences with polyamory and what that journey has been like for me, going from a happily monogamous marriage to a polyamorous lifestyle. But now, I’ve found my Romeo and things are very much settled for me. I have him, my one boyfriend, and no other romantic… Continue reading Story time is over.
This is the story of how I discovered that sexual compatibility is a real thing.
For readers who may not know this, I grew up in the American Evangelical Church, and continued to embrace it as an adult until recently. The AEC is a term commonly used for the most dominant form of “Christianity” within the United States of America. It has a culture all its own, and a big… Continue reading This is the story of how I discovered that sexual compatibility is a real thing.
This is the story of UGGHHHH.
What is my life now? The short answer is, I feel like I’m living for the times I can be with Romeo. What about the times in between? I’m existing. Just existing. Maintaining things—my life, my family, my house, my responsibilities. Of course, I need this time without Romeo to maintain things. Or at least… Continue reading This is the story of UGGHHHH.
This is the story of several little big things.
I am approaching my two month milestone of being together with Romeo, and things are still going strong. Stronger and stronger every day, despite how impossible that seems, in fact. Every day we find ways to up the ante again and again. Our love is stupidly, absurdly, disgustingly, intense and powerful. And yeah, I get… Continue reading This is the story of several little big things.
This is the story of how I became fearless.
As of today, here is my relationship with Romeo in numbers. Weeks we’ve known each other: 6 Days we’ve known each other: 43 Times we’ve seen each other: 17 Sleepovers we’ve had: 10 Hand-written love letters we’ve exchanged: 8 (or more, I’ve lost track; I keep all of his of course, but how many have… Continue reading This is the story of how I became fearless.
This is the story of how I hate rejection.
Tonight, Calvin broke up with me. I saw it coming, and even in a small way hoped he’d end things because I liked him too much to do it myself, but I knew it would make my life simpler. Yet it still surprised me, and what surprised me even more was that it still hurt.… Continue reading This is the story of how I hate rejection.
This is the story of how I normalized my poly life.
My relationship with Romeo is getting to the point of finally feeling “normal.” Even though we are still stupidly obsessed with each other, we’re finding ways to blend our lives together without losing balance. We both have families, and he has a full-time job, and we live an hour and a half apart, so balance… Continue reading This is the story of how I normalized my poly life.
This is the story of how I live in a dream now.
I’ve been with Romeo for a month now, and it still doesn’t feel real. Our relationship started as a nearly-instant love, and the fire has not died down at all yet. It’s burning strong and fast with zero percent containment. 😆 There are many reasons why it doesn’t feel real. Romeo is unbelievable in so… Continue reading This is the story of how I live in a dream now.